Have you ever done so “good” the entire day only to screw it all up by bingeing at night?!
Have you ever skipped breakfast or restricted calories the next day after bingeing at night in order to gain back control and “make up” for the binge?
...If so, you’re not alone!
The reality is restricting and binging are equally feeding into each other and many people can easily get trapped into this binge/restrict cycle, and when that happens.. It’s NOT fun! (Trust me I know).
Here are some important steps you can take to help break the binge/restrict cycle, reduce shame & guilt, and stick to your goals:
1.) No Foods Off Limits
Give yourself permission to include ALL foods into your diet… that’s right, ALL FOODS! We often can spark a binge when we tell ourselves that we can’t have a certain food because it’s “bad”. As humans, we want what we can’t have, so if you tell yourself you can’t have a cookie because it’s “bad”, you will start to think about it and crave it more. I know you may think you might go overboard (binge) if you let yourself have the “bad” foods. And you might at first, but if you trust your body, you will find an equilibrium and you will start to not crave that food as much anymore.
2.) Don’t Restrict After a Binge
People often think they should compensate for a binge by skipping the next meal & reducing calories… but this strategy will only KEEP you in the binge/restrict cycle! Instead, we want to actually do the opposite and continue to eat consistently, every 3-5 hours. We want to also include an adequate amount of healthy fats, protein, carbohydrates, and fiber to keep us satisfied.
3.) Listen to Your Body’s Hunger & Fullness Cues
Do you often honor your hunger when your body tells you it’s hungry? Or do you just shut it out and wait until you're starving to honor it? It is so important when preventing a binge to honor your hunger in the moment that you feel hungry. When we wait too long, our primal instincts kick in and it forces us to binge eat so that our body can maintain its functions.
So what are some things that you can do after a binge you may ask? Well Here are some things you can start with:
1.) Don’t Beat Yourself Up
Anyone who’s been there knows the feeling. The aftermath of a binge is the WORST! But, what’s done is done so there’s no need to harp on it. Try to find other things you can do to take your mind off of it such as, going for a walk, reading a book, watching your favorite show, playing with your kids, coloring, meditation, etc!
2.) Reflect on the Situation
Ask yourself after the binge, “what might have triggered me to binge?” and WRITE IT DOWN. Journal how long the binge was for, what you ate, and what triggered it. Getting curious and bringing awareness to the situation can help you to see a pattern and can help you to see if you’ve made progress!
3.) Get into Comfy Clothes
This can really help you feel more comfortable after a binge vs wearing tight clothing.